We’re a loosely-organized social group of guys who like to JO together. If you want us to let you know next time we have a gathering planned, leave your contact info below. You can learn more about the group at our About page, and see frequently asked questions as well. (Our house parties are free, and we split the cost of a hotel room when we have parties in a hotel.)

During COVID, we will be meeting virtually until it’s safe to meet again in person. Instead, we have a Slack server, dedicated Zoom room, and regular times each week for guys to connect who want to meet up by video. When you sign up, you’ll get at invite and instructions for connecting.

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Your information is completely confidential. We use it only to plan meetings and will never share it with anyone.

If you have joined the list before and wish to re-subscribe, please mention that in the notes. Once you've unsubscribed, my email system will only re-add you with manual intervention and you need to let me know that's necessary.

Please leave something unique! Leaving a single letter or a name like "M" means you'll be confused with everyone else who did that, too.

You can click the SignUp button now, or answer the optional questions to help us better plan groups.

OPTIONAL

These questions help organizing groups so we can find times and places that work for everyone, etc.

Please leave a number we can text to speed up our ability to organize on the fly. If you leave this blank, we'll use email, but that has the disadvantage that if you identify yourself as "John," we won't know which of the 19 Johns you are.
Please send along a picture so we have a face to connect with your name. Pictures are never shared unless you give explicit permission.

Your types

What's your type and who you're attracted to? We may try to have some specialized groups, and this will help us know what combinations of guys will work.

How would you describe yourself?
How would you describe yourself?
What guys are you attracted to?
What guys are you attracted to?

When and where can you meet?

Monthly, weekly, etc.

Events may be in private homes, AirBNB, or hotels. Private home events are smaller. All events require advance RSVP. Both hotels and AirBNB would require splitting the costs, shooting for $10-$20 per person

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Where can you attend?
Some attendees may prefer to watch or be nervous about getting undressed in a group setting. Yet having clothed attendees can create a weird vibe for other member (unless, of course, the clothing is part of a role play or clothing fetish). Should we disallow clothing?
The group will initially be oriented around JO and circle jerks. Some members have expressed an interest in oral as well. Others thing that keeping things JO only make it safer and more open for men who identify as straight or curious.
If someone referred you, please let us know who.