Just Jacking

Many of the guys who have filled out the contact form have said they enjoy oral. Even the guys coordinating the group really like oral. So why did we decide to go JO-only?

We’re JO-only for physical health reasons.

JO is pretty much the safest sexual activity there is. We want to spread good times, not germs. By remaining JO only, we can be sure we’ll all have a good time and the only friends we bring home will be of the human variety.

We’re JO-only to make the group welcoming.

We want everyone who attends to know what they’re getting into. We all jerk off. It’s familiar, we know it. Everyone who comes to our groups knows what we’ll be doing. Knowing the boundaries in advance gives everyone the entire lay of the land before coming. Er, no puns intended.

We’re JO-only to make the group safe for straight, questioning, and curious guys.

We’ve had straight, questioning, and curious guys attend. For them, jacking with another guy may all they’re comfortable with. We don’t want anyone to feel pressure to engage in anything they’re not ready for. We do want everyone to have safe fun!

We’re JO-only so meetings themselves go smoothly.

When we’re all jerking off together, if two guys are jacking each other and some are jacking off alone, watching, it’s still social and inclusive. Oral tends be more intimate than JO. If some guys split off into oral, and others don’t, it can create a “watcher/doer” divide where some people feel left out when others pair up. By staying JO-only, it keeps the social dynamics light and friendly.

You’re always free to meet up outside the group.

If you make a new friend at Cambridge Jacks and want to trade numbers and meet up separately to do more than JO, go for it! Our mission in the group is to facilitate sexual and social satisfaction!